Thursday 27 December 2012

Themself vs Themselves

We have always studied, in English Reflexive Pronouns, that for singular, we should use 'self':
     I = myself
     you = yourself
     he = himself / she = herself / it = itself
Instead, for plural, we should use 'selves':
     we = ourselves
     you = yourselves
     they = themselves

However, I have heard "themself" a few times and seemingly, for the same reason: to obviate the need for gender explicit pronouns.  

Let's go to make a review:
  • "Themselves" is the reflexive pronoun traditionally used in the third person plural. Ex.:  They hurt themselves while playing football. 
  • More recently, "themselves" has been used as a gender-neutral pronoun to refer to a single person and avoid the cumbersome "himself or herself" phrase. Ex.:  Somebody hurt themselves while playing football. (You want to avoid specifying if the "somebody" is male or female.)
  • Traditional English grammar would have the above sentence as: Somebody hurt himself or herself while playing football. 
  • The use of themselves as a reflexive pronoun to refer to a single person is widespread, but considered by some as incorrect on the grounds that a plural cannot be used for just one person. So, people started using "themself" instead. Ex.:  Somebody hurt themself while playing football. 
The shorter OED (Oxford English Dictionary) offers this thought : "Use of themselves to refer to a single person of unspecified sex is now becoming acceptable : see note at they . The apparently more logical form themself is not widely accepted , however ." 

Hope this helps.



Please, If you find any mistake or you have another point of view about the information that I have posted, please leave a comment. We can all learn together! This blog feeds on your coments!!

3 comments:

  1. Well actually him or herself is considered awakard so we would use one or the other usually the male pronoun but some considered that sexist.

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  2. I never heard themself used that way even informal language. It would be himself or herself.

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  3. Thank you so much Margaret.

    It's the same problema in Spain. Here, there is even a fashion between the well read people about to say "ellos y ellas" or "alumnos y alumnas" and so on.

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